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Sunday 19 November 2017

Baby boys items that are under $30!

My fave thing to do is dress my boys up. I love clothing so it was only a given it would be the same with my boys clothing. I decided to put together 10 or so items that are all under $30! Because you can buy cute things without it costing an arm and a leg. Enjoy!




Moccassins from- www.hugoco.com.au
Romper- www.ramieandweave.com.au







Onesie- www.bonds.com


Socks and Moccassins- www.hugoco.com.au

Wednesday 15 November 2017

How to take decent photos using your phone camera.

I get asked all the time what camera I use to take my photos and how I edit them. So I thought instead of replying to everyone individually in DM via the gram why not just do a blog post about it. So here it is! My personal hints, tricks and tips! I'm not an expect or have any professional as such experience. It's just what i've learnt myself. I hope this helps you in some way. If you ever need a little chat about it please feel free to DM via the gram. Enjoy!

I have a camera. It's a canon 7D. I currently use a 50mm lens but that's really only good for portrait work so I will be upgrading that soon. Now even though I do own a camera all of my Instagram photos of late have been from my phone. Mainly because although the quality of the canon camera is 1000x better it's heavy to take around on my own with 2 kids. So my phone is the easier option. So sure a exxy camera will produce higher quality photos but not everyone can afford that budget.
Currently I have a sony experia so that's what all my photos are taken on. Here are my tips for taking nice photos on your phone then I'll get to the editing.

Taking the photos-
1. It's all about that natural lighting guys! Natural light produces the best photos. I find early arvo to be the best for this personally. Because the sun isn't so bright (squinty and overexposed)  so it makes for really pretty lighting.

  

2. Self timer. Yep! Use a 1 second timer and it will cancel out some of the movement in focus. Aka- the wriggling babe. This doesn't always work if your baby/child is super wriggly but most of the time it works for me.
  

3. When taking photos I use the manual setting on my phone camera. Because I can focus on certain points to get the correct lighting on a focal point. Example- I want the focal point to be my baby and not the things in the background. So I will click the screen where my baby is in the frame and it will make my baby be brighter and more in focused lighting. That way the background is slightly more dark and the whole picture doesn't become overexposed.

4. Take lots of photos. Keep clicking for like 30-40 seconds. Usually you will get a couple of goodies in there.

5. Last but not least don't be afraid to play around with what angle you're taking your photos. You don't always have to centre an image.




Editing the photos-
1. I use an app called Vsco. This app is free to download and it comes on android and apple. It's the one I have found the easiest. There is another app called lightroom (I think you pay for that one but don't quote me on that.)

2. Vsco editing. Play around with the filters and see which one suits you. I have 1 filter I use on every photo and I just adjust the amount of filter on it to suit the individual photo. I also play around with the exposure, temperature, clarity, tint and highlight. This all takes practice but once you get the hang it's becomes quite easy.

3. Clarity/sharpness. This is what will take your photo from a 5 to 10, what I have found anyway. I find turning up the sharpness creates more of a HD effect. Because once you upload it the resolution will be effected.

4. I find i'm drawn to photos with warmth and brightness. I'm unsure why I just find those the best for me.



5. Facetune. Now don't hammer me on this one guys! I don't 'pinch' my body or anything like that. I really only use this app to make all my whites and greys the same shade so it all 'gels' together. I'm yet to find a different one to help me with that on my phone. (if you know of one let me know!)
. There is alot you can do with this app but that's the only time I use it. This app you have to pay for. I believe there is another app called snap seed that does this also. Best to have a play around though and find what works for you.

These are MY tips! I never claim to not edit my photos because I do. I do not edit my children or my body because that's one thing i'd never do. I only ever edit to colour Match.  Please remember that.

Monday 6 November 2017

7 months pp and I still feel overwelmed.

    

So I decided to write a post about the last 7 months post pregnancy. I want to share abit more into my life than what you see on the gram. I want to open up in hope it will help a) break the stigma and b) help another mama! I'm all about the motherhood community and truely believe we can ALL support each other. True in fact I have found mothers tend to be the worst for online bullying. Why? Because unfortnately when some are feeling slightly overwelmed or insecure it is easier to make others feel bad in attempt to fill some sort of void. When I experience this anger/sadness/jealously/hate from another mother online I remind myself they must be going through a tough time too. It takes less of the blow off me anyway. But this post isn't about online bullying (although that does need to be highlighted at some point in time ya know!). It's about how I have been feeling the last few months, now this may turn into a longer post so get comfortable and grab a tea/coffee or whatever liquid you choose to drink. I have suffered anxiety most of my life. Many people will suffer anxiety at some point in their lives, which makes me feel sad but anywho! Once I had children it got a little worse because I now had little people to worry about as well as myself. But I was still pretty relaxed, a little bit chill with slight anxiety. However after Flynn my anxiety got abit worse and then once I had Noah it was at a all time high. Now to be honest I haven't even admitted to myself how bad it has been for me until quite recently. Many many things have contributed to these feelings of darkness. But I am head strong and try to pretend it will go away in time. However it hasn't this time, it has started to rule my life. I find myself panicking over the most ridiculous things! Even writing this i'm panicking!! I won't make a list because to be frank i'm actually too embarrassed to admit how silly they are. But to sum it up I even panic about being in the car with my kids. I feel I have to protect them at all times, with every single bit in me. So being in the car takes all my control away because some people drive SO bad on the road and I'm always seeing terrible car accidents on the news. So I live in fear of us being one of those cars/people on the news. Crazy right?!? It's draining worrying so much and I'm ashamed to admit that. I'm unsure why. I feel sad, alone, anxious. All these bad emotions have totally eaten up my soul. I am a happy person usually and I still am a happy person. I still enjoy things and I love my kids. But for the first time in 7 months i'm admitting i'm not doing well, I'm not always okay and that's okay! I'm admitting on here that I need to seek help about these dark emotions that are eating my soul away. Not just for my kids but for me. By admitting on here i'm making a promise I have to keep. Yes I put the best parts of my life on the gram. Because in those moments I am happy. Adventuring with my boys is what makes everyday feel so special. Because when I look back on these memories I want to remember how joyful they truely were. Babies don't keep, they grow and I don't want to miss a single moment of it.


It's ok to not always be ok. It's ok to admit defeat. From here I derserve to feel amazing! So I WILL seek help! Here is to a better me!

All my love,
H.
xx

Thursday 2 November 2017

An open letter to my first born.


My Xavier,
I'm writing this open letter to you. Because you are the most special, beautiful and kind hearted boy I know. Sure you have your moments; more so often than ever before. I wonder if it's an age attitude change or whether you're still becoming accustomed to sharing my attention with your little brother. I'm sorry mummy can't rush to your every whim anymore. I promise I try my best to share the time I have with both you and your brother. I'm sorry you have to share my cuddles, my kisses and attention. I promise to be as equal as I possibly can.
 Thankyou for being so understanding of mummy, for helping mummy calm your brother and for always loving me even when you are feeling overwelmed or having a bad day.
Mummy will always share a bond with you that no one can ever replace or take away. You are my first love and you made me a mummy for the first time. You give me so much joy, so much inspiration and mummy can't even put words together to describe the amount of love I have for you. I will cherish every single hug you give me, everytime you tell me you love me and even when you don't eat the food I spend lots of money on. We may not get every single moment together anymore but my little love I vow to always make sure you know how loved you really are. This is my open letter to you baby boy. Because although you are small now, I know you won't be forever.

All my love,
Mummy.
xx